What black tie, cocktail and business casual mean
Black tie means a tuxedo with a black bow tie, while black tie optional also allows a dark suit and a conservative tie if you do not own or rent a tuxedo. Cocktail means a dark suit, with a tie usually expected. Business casual means chinos or dress trousers and a collared shirt with no tie, and smart casual adds good jeans and a blazer. When unsure, ask the host or dress one step up.
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How to do it
- Read the dress code line on the invitation and note the time of day and venue.
- For black tie, wear a tuxedo, a white dress shirt, a black bow tie and polished black shoes, renting if you need to.
- For black tie optional, a tuxedo or a dark navy or charcoal suit with a conservative tie both work.
- For cocktail or semi-formal, wear a dark suit, a dress shirt and a tie unless the invitation says otherwise.
- For business casual, wear chinos or dress trousers, a collared shirt or fine knit, and leather shoes, without a tie.
- For smart casual, dark jeans or chinos with a collared shirt and a blazer are the safe middle.
- If still unsure, ask the host, or dress one step more formal than your guess.
Common mistakes
- Wearing a black business suit and long tie to strict black tie.
- Reading casual on a wedding invitation as shorts and sneakers.
- Forgetting that a daytime outdoor event usually runs lighter in color and fabric.
- Not checking shoes, which undo an otherwise right outfit.
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What to say
Black tie means a tuxedo with a black bow tie, while black tie optional also allows a dark suit and a conservative tie if you do not own or rent a tuxedo. Cocktail means a dark suit, with a tie usually expected. Business casual means chinos or dress trousers and a collared shirt with no tie, and smart casual adds good jeans and a blazer. When unsure, ask the host or dress one step up.
What to show, in order
- Read the dress code line on the invitation and note the time of day and venue.
- For black tie, wear a tuxedo, a white dress shirt, a black bow tie and polished black shoes, renting if you need to.
- For black tie optional, a tuxedo or a dark navy or charcoal suit with a conservative tie both work.
- For cocktail or semi-formal, wear a dark suit, a dress shirt and a tie unless the invitation says otherwise.
- For business casual, wear chinos or dress trousers, a collared shirt or fine knit, and leather shoes, without a tie.
- For smart casual, dark jeans or chinos with a collared shirt and a blazer are the safe middle.
- If still unsure, ask the host, or dress one step more formal than your guess.
The check question
Ask: What does black tie optional allow?
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